Giving Thanks

Had a good time today with Shirley, my future Mom-in-law Ladia, Mom and Dad, and Trish. We were at Trisha's, and her boyfriend and his son and daughter were there and we enjoyed eating and hanging together.

What a feast! A turducken and a turkey, green bean casserole, mashed potatoes, corn, dressing, 2 kinds of rolls, sweet potatoes w/marshmallows on top (mmmm!), and pies -- 2 pumpkin, a pecan, and a sugar-free apple (for me, of course!).

Better that that, of course, was the time to be with family and thank our God for all His many blessings to us.

I used to be a pretty hardcore Calvinist. Meaning, I believed that God only chooses to save some of us--the offer of salvation is only to a chosen few. He only loves those chosen few. And His blessings are only for those few elect. I now believe (and have now for a few years) that, based on Scripture and the Church Fathers (the apostolic tradition--our first and best commentary on Scripture), He loves us all. And He extends His offer of salvation to all, to each one of us, and wants each of us to come to Him in repentance in faith. He wants to fill each of our lives up with Himself. And all good things really do come from Him--even good things that people who don't know Him enjoy. It's just that, as believers, we are blessed more--we enjoy life more, and all things that He gives us, because we're rightly related to Him. When I came to this realization, all my questions about God's goodness and the unbeliever were answered.

Thankfully, He manifests Himself to all, many, many times in this life, and perhaps in the life to come. We pray that each person will respond to Him in faith.

Have a blessed Thanksgiving weekend.



under the mercy,
Br. Francis

St. John the Divine

Shirley and I want to say thanks to the folks at SJD for welcoming us in your midst the past several months. We have worshipped at the the 11am Contemporary Eucharist led by Fr. Reagan Cocke, and music by Kemper Crabb's worship band "The Living Creatures". I also went to Eucharist 5:30pm Wednesdays in the Chapel. (Shirley joined me some on Wednesdays, too.)

The Contemporary Eucharist is a great convergence service, and Reagan and Kemper really do a great job at making it a balanced, relevant and vibrant service. We've also enjoyed being a part of the "Marriage Course" that Reagan led. And we've had a good Sunday School class--the Blain/Hill/Temple group--we've really enjoyed some good, lively discussions and good fellowship with these folks.

St. John the Divine is a faithful parish that holds to the Scriptures and lifts up Jesus Christ as God come in the flesh, the only way to salvation. And they are a caring, alive parish with many different outreaches. And the church's priests are faithful--Fr.'s Larry Hall, Doug Richnow, and Reagan Cocke. God richly bless you guys. We will miss you.


Br. Francis

1st OKC move

Last Friday, Nov 3, Oblate Andrew and I loaded up part of my house and then part of Shirley's house for the first move. Shirley, her mother, sister and brother-in-law also helped load and pack the truck (thanks to all!). We left early Friday evening and arrived in OKC and were welcomed by Abbot Jim at 4 a.m. (yes, you read right!!!).

We signed the lease and moved the first load in Saturday at Noon (thanks Abbot and Matt!), bought blinds and curtains and watched the Sooners win that evening. Sunday afternoon, we cleaned, unpacked some, and hung blinds and curtains Sunday afternoon, then flew back and got home late Sunday night. Then--back to work Monday morning!

15 days working. I have to say, we have both been tired and I have been dealing with aching muscles all week. Needless to say, we both slept in this morning (I more then Shirley...!).

After the wedding and honeymoon, we take load 2 (the last!) up to Mercy House. It's 3 weeks away--getting close!

Thanks be to God.

Br. Francis